Four Poets on the grass at Mill Lake in August 2024.
Emily is a mythic soul, a solitary unicorn.
I read the poem from the book Hallmark by Emily Isaacson, of the story of how the Smith family house had burned to the ground one night when a vagrant snuck in and caused a fire. The Smith family was my grandparents who lived on Esplanade, and the house on their one million dollar estate in Hemet, California overlooking the San Jacinto Valley was left empty after they died. The poem is told from the perspective of the vagrant, who refers to themselves as a mouse. The title is in reference to Margaret Atwood, aptly called ``What We Found Over Breakfast``in reference to her book Morning in the Burned House.
Here is the poem:
What We Found Over Breakfast
By candlelight I pen this solemn note,
to the master and the mistress of this house,
I am no bigger than a field mouse,
but I have sailed upon the seven seas,
and now—what has become of me—
I cannot speak for misery—
It was in a moment of charm
that I accepted the old house with open arms.
This burned-down house—
the morning finds but none too soon—
was charred by my own match;
a fiddler’s tune I played upon the thatch,
your rooftop bearing me, it let me stay,
but now that mournful resonance
is but insoluble dissonance.
If I should run from you
I must confess
that it was I who fell from grace
with just one note—
upon your blackened cinders
grand old house, I stand,
with now an inextinguished hand.
With terror, I would flee
into the night—
I would desist from digging at the site
of one more grave—
the Esplanade—
a place that once was loved
lies in unbeguiling ashes
not caused by anyone excepting me.
A coward, I would bow
to take my strap—
I would stretch out my hand
at curt command
but would the haunting eyes
that looked out o’er the plains
be no more furious distain.
Emily
Photo by Emily Isaacson
The signs of spring are appearing, although today was the first sunny day this week. I am going on a weiner roast down by the river this evening. What kind of weiner would a nutritionist eat you might ask? Well definitely something with turkey or chicken I would answer. Hopefully one that is not made of by-products. I also happen to be highly allergic to pork.
I have been studying Miranda from The Tempest as well as Shakespeare's Juliet and Ophelia. My studies of Ophelia resulted in a seven stanza poem that I made into a YouTube movie. My studies of Miranda resulted in a long requiem-style poem that is based on the plot of The Tempest with a few modifications. Making that work in sonnet form was a challenge, since it had to rhyme, but I could not even cover it in less than 10 stanzas.
I finally submitted "Da Capo Aria of Miranda" for the ekphrastic poetry contest hosted by Frontier literary journal. According to the Poetry Foundation, "ekphrastic means 'Description' in Greek. An ekphrastic poem is a vivid description of a scene or, more commonly, a work of art." I have written ekphrastic poems before, but in relation to paintings in Europe or musical compositions.
Since I requested editorial feedback from Frontier, and since the poem is in no way like most of what they publish, we'll have to wait and see the results. Of course they did say they were open to all styles. The ekphrastic part was that it was a response to The Tempest by Shakespeare and inspired by the painting "Miranda and the Tempest" by J. W Waterhouse (below).
What I learned about Miranda included that she was young--only about 15 years old; innocent, as she grew up on a desert island; and represented compassion. I tried to weave these ideas into the text. Here I read online the notes for the Shakespeare play, and the play itself, for about four hours prior to beginning the poem several days later, and it took me about a week and a half to write and perfect, which is about the norm right now. The polishing consists of playing the poem, like I would play the piano, where I count out the syllables for every line, and check that it rhymes or agree to an acceptable slant rhyme. I do this a few times before publication.
Since I couldn't use the Miranda poem for this month since it is tied up with the contest, I ended up writing another poem on the word "Ithaca". This word is also the title of a poem written in 2011 by a Greek journalist and is about a Greek isle in the Mediterranean. The word holds over a hundred years of symbolism that largely goes along with the early poem. It later became so well-known, word-worn, and famous, partly for having been read so many times, including one YouTube reading online by Sean Connery.
I wrote a modern poem in sonnet form on the same theme, that was seven stanzas, only the original poem was free verse, using repetition, whereas mine was a rhyming, syllabic poem with a rhyme scheme. I made the YouTube video for the month with that poem and sourced literally all the images except nine from AI with the help of Adobe Stock. It is amazing what you can find now with AI, and my only criteria was that each image required you to suspend your disbelief.
The result was 30 minutes long, but it really teaches the poem, not just portrays it, on a scholarly way. That was the poem for February, titled, "Jouney to Ithaca."
I wrote under the movie: Journey to Ithaca is a re-telling of a century-old favourite. The island of Ithaca, is a Greek island in the Mediterranean. It is also the mythic location where Homer's Odyssey took place. In the early 1900's a Greek poet and journalist by the name of Constantine Cavafy wrote the poem "Ithaka" that spanned a century of interest in the symbolism of the poem. The idea that the journey could mean more than the destination caught hold of its readers. The poem was read at the funeral of Jackie Kennedy Onassis.
According to the website Greeka: "Since Homer's
Odyssey, Ithaca symbolizes the destination of a long journey, the supreme aim
that every man tries to fulfill all his life long, the sweet homeland, the
eternal calmness, and satisfaction.
Many artists and literary people have been inspired by this
interpretation of Homer's poem and have given to this small island of the
Ionian Sea a special sense. Famous poets have been inspired by Ithaca and have
used its name metaphorically on their works.
"The most famous poem about Ithaca has been written by the renowned Greek poet Constantine Cavafy and is entitled "Ithaka". There he makes an allusion of the legendary journey of Ulysses to the journey of every man through life and suggests that each person is looking for his own Ithaca, his personal supreme goal. However, in the end, it is not the goal but the journey that matters, because this journey makes us wise and gives people the richest good: experience, knowledge, and maturity." (Source: https://www.greeka.com/ionian/ithaca/about/poem)
Even the main soundtrack on the video was titled Ithaka. This is a inspiring and well-used concept for artists to go back to. The keys in the poem and the video were symbolic as well I learned on a key website that a key symbolizes all forces that open and close, bind and release and stand for liberation and incarceration. . . keys to the city were symbols of the residents’ right to self-determination. This is particularly relevant in the journeying theme; it is our right to reach our eventual destination and decide what that is.
Well we are facing 2024 this Siberian-cold-like January, with temperatures outside that feels like in the - 20's with the wind factor. After an amazingly mild December, with little snow so far, I thought Abbotsford had gotten off easy. Well we were in for a surprise with some of the coldest weather in my memory including a -15 and I have spent quite a few winters driving around in the snow. I can't help but think it is related to the death of 2,840, 545 hectares of trees from the 2, 245 forest fires on record in British Columbia last summer.
Last year was a prolific year (even though the writing occured mostly on weekends) with the fruit being a small volume titled Odes released in the fall. The subject of the book leant itself to dealing with all manner of botanicals, selected in part from the Celtic Tree Calendar, in honour of the twelve nieces and nephews of my extended family. I started the year by pitching it to them as a game, to see who could guess whose poem, but the poems were so varied and mature in their subject matters, that I ended up writing them by the month in which the children were born. Indeed, the poems are not intended to be children's poems, but written to them to have meaning throughout the course of their lives and in all they might encounter...
"We seek out literature for inspiration to eschew control. We seek out the prophetic for protection in the spiritual realm. There is a need for visionary gifts. There is a need for seeing into the past and future with redemptive eyes. There is a yearning to stand on a hill and see all the possible tragedies that could befall any individual, and to fashion an amulet, to give hope in dark times."
I wrote a brief introduction in September as accompaniment for the $15 edition. It begins ...
"I have long wondered whether our love for trees is what drives us to buy recycled paper. There are so many facets of connection, made real and renewed every time we are in nature. The throwback to animism, where we acknowledge a higher power that has given soul to nature, and spirit to trees, endears us to them like friends. Indeed, the sacred bond between trees and people goes back to the beginning of poetry, and in essence the beginning of poetry could not exist without a tribute to trees."
This slender book of just over a hundred pages was meant to be a Christmas gift to my family members in lieu of gifts in a spartan year that required a certain amount of frugality. It was launched in September at a live performance in the Clark Theatre for the residents of Mission at their new annual variety show. Along with other perfomers from various art forms, it made a stunning debut on the stage which was reported in the Mission Record.
We later had a release party for Odes at the library in Clearbrook with the Fraser Valley Poets Society. I sold them the illustrated edition, as it was all I had in print, with the non-illustrated versions and hardcover coming out by Christmas. The three editions were given as gifts to the four other familes that make up my extended family, and close relatives. By the time it was published there were thirteen grandchildren as my younger sister gave birth to a healthy baby girl named Vienna, with her second husband. Needless to say, Vienna is as cute as a little doll and already a family favourite.
The end of the pandemic escalated into a Baroque like coronation of splendour and pomp. Yes, it was the last year of the pandemic, which ended in May. It was declared officially over just in the nick of time as I was writing "Requiem for a King's Coronation March", and needed that information to complete the poem. Were we in a pandemic or not at that very time, was quite relevant.
Although the word "requiem" refers to a funeral mass, I adopted this term as a name for a form of seven stanzas of Italian Petrarchan form, with a modified rhyme scheme. The King's coronation was not meant to hearken to a funeral by any means. The end result, with the video made and finished by 5 pm PST the night before it was to air, was a miraculous work: that I was inspired and had the energy to write and produce it was completely spur of the moment, a shocking admission. I have since accepted that it might as well be one of my life's most significant works, as the occasion seldom presents itself to anyone to write for a royal coronation in Great Britain in their lifetime.
As for the rest of the year, I continued on in spite of my fear that it might be my last. I thought my poetry writing would end too. As I approached turning 48 I thought I would be dead before the year turned. Yet I lived on. I did not die. This was a truly new reality for me that I would live to be 48, as I had such a strong sense that I would die young and unprepared. I say this as I have so many projects still unfinished, and no one wants to die in such as state as to have so many works of potential for development on the back burner. (You'd think I have a massive stove.)
So I continue on with the sense that God has been merciful. I may be living on borrowed time, but I have decided for the year of 2024-5 to do a 2-year study in the Women of Waterhouse. I am writing poems every weekend about Shakespearean women, and those of Greek myths. I look forward to sharing here in this blog what I am learning, and what these studies entail.
Yours,
Emily
There's something delightful I would like to share with you. I have discovered a few little fairies on YouTube and today I wanted to post an example of each of their videos. They are all cinematographers, whose fame has derived from the YouTube videos and some of them have millions of followers.
North
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cb4oxgDZl6I&t=105s
Jonna Jinton
West
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xi5AuDoPHTg
Isobel Paige
South
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHR6hcGoR8Q
The Cottage Fairy
East
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNbxgRRJxgg&t=448s
Darling Desi
Photos taken by Emily Isaacson
The Renaissance would sing of you in blue
and white stained glass, with ruby crown,
the red blood of your body next ran down
to the torment of your outer flesh; you
were determined to die in every room
of the three levels of humankind: sound
doctrine made us build stone mansions, to found
hell, and earth, and heaven. Before monsoons
of spirits conjured up ideals—hours
swept away like old houses and picket
fences, marigolds flying in maize.
Rose-red smile, the dark hair, and pale-powdered
face of evening, Lilith’s flow’r, Lilibet’s
cry from all lands sounds, pure oil in a haze.
There was
always a royal rose,
in deep
red hue, loyal
to a
nation: entwining
as I
looked deep into time.
The
empire that bore
your name
wore
the
breastplate
with the
coat of arms,
and
sacred incense.
I was
first to hold you,
in the
lighted hour of truth,
and last
to see you go,
the
glisten of lush red,
the blush
of pink,
a momentary
trace of snow,
birth
pang of departed lands—
life
nestled in my open hands,
unrepentant
starts,
O
Commonwealth of hearts.
Emily Isaacson
______________
I wrote a letter to the editor of the National Post, and it explains what the difference between self-publishing, or what they used to call a vanity press, and partnership publishing, or publishing in the modern age of print on demand.
Currently, five of my books are partnership published, which I would explain as: you are asked to pay for a marketing agent, or part of the cost of marketing the book. The publisher foots the bill for the actual book itself. This arrangement, which assumes a published book costs the publisher upwards of $19,000, means you pay out of pocket a small sum (usually $2000-$4,000), but make higher royalties. Usually I make upwards of 30%, and have more marketing assistance and effort put into the book of an emerging writer. This is the mainstay of publishing until you are established. Publishing your own book is considered an endeavor just for family, friends and locals. It would not be in major online bookstores, available in brick and mortar bookstores on demand, or on Amazon. It would just be called printing a book, with a small print run that you decide on and pay for with no editing, designing, or interior graphic design other than what you can do yourself.
________________________________
Here is the letter:
December 24, 2020
To the Editor;
It is interesting to me that Emily Bronte was published in the newspaper under the name Ellis Bell in the early 1800's. Her first book sold all of two copies. If a book did not sell, the publisher discreetly destroyed the remainder. In the modern age, we have adopted something called 'Print On Demand' which in its early days was known as a Vanity Press. Now almost all Indie Publications are 'Print On Demand' so there are no extra books to throw out.
Back in the day editors used to publish poetry in the newspaper. There were a few rare poets who published under male pseudonyms, if they were women. Women poets only began to come out in the late 1800's as accepted for their own work.
I am a poet. I have written books for royals and for politicians, including the Prime Minister's wife. I write each poem with a special reader or recipient in mind. I have published almost 1,000 volumes of poetry. I have been both accepted and rejected in my nine year career in publishing verse. It is my desire this Christmas to wish all your readers a Happy Holiday in this trying and difficult season.
Sincerely,
Writer and poet
Emily Isaacson
______________________________
My idea for
Love in the Time of Plague
by poet Emily Isaacson
is subject to the publisher
who will re-design
If it's hard to explain why some people do the things they do, try a personality test. I thought I'd share the results I got today here. You can take the test for yourself if you scroll down to the end.
An Advocate Type
"Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being.” --JOHANN WOLFGANG VON GOETHE
Advocates’ unique combination of personality traits makes them complex
and quite versatile. For example, Advocates can speak with great passion and
conviction, especially when standing up for their ideals. At other times,
however, they may choose to be soft-spoken and understated, preferring to keep
the peace rather than challenge others.
Standing Up for What’s Right
Advocates generally strive to do what’s right – and they want to help
create a world where others do the right thing as well. People with this
personality type may feel called to use their strengths – including creativity,
imagination, and sensitivity – to uplift others and spread compassion. Concepts
like egalitarianism and karma can mean a great deal to Advocates.
Advocates may see helping others as their purpose in life. They are
troubled by injustice, and they typically care more about altruism than
personal gain. As a result, Advocates tend to step in when they see someone facing
unfairness or hardship. Many people with this personality type also aspire to
fix society’s deeper problems, in the hope that unfairness and hardship can
become things of the past.
Nothing lights up Advocates like creating a solution that changes people’s lives.
Connecting with Others (and Themselves)
Advocates may be reserved, but they communicate in a way that is warm
and sensitive. This emotional honesty and insight can make a powerful
impression on the people around them.
Advocates value deep, authentic relationships with others, and they tend
to take great care with other people’s feelings. That said, these personalities
also need to prioritize reconnecting with themselves. Advocates need to take
some time alone now and then to decompress, recharge, and process their
thoughts and feelings.
The Cost of Success
At times, Advocates may focus so intently on their ideals that they
don’t take care of themselves. Advocates may feel that they aren’t allowed to
rest until they’ve achieved their unique vision of success, but this mindset
can lead to stress and burnout. If this happens, people with this personality
type may find themselves feeling uncharacteristically ill-tempered.
Advocates might find themselves feeling especially stressed in the face
of conflict and criticism. These personalities tend to act with the best of
intentions, and it can frustrate them when others don’t appreciate this. At
times, even constructive criticism may feel deeply personal or hurtful to
Advocates.
Strengths & Weaknesses
Advocate (INFJ) Strengths
Romantic
Relationships
It can take time for Advocates to find a compatible partner. Some people
might think Advocates are too choosy, and it’s true that these personalities
can have unrealistic expectations. Some Advocates might hold out for a
“perfect” partner or relationship that ultimately doesn’t exist.
That said, Advocates’ idealism – if balanced with just enough realism –
can actually enhance their love lives. Advocate personalities tend to be in
touch with their core values, so they care about compatibility as well as
surface-level attraction. This can help them avoid matches that aren’t founded
on authenticity or shared principles.
Once Advocates do find a suitable relationship, they rarely take it for
granted. Instead, they tend to look for ways to grow as individuals and
strengthen their connection with their partner. This can help Advocates’
relationships reach a level of depth and sincerity of which many people can
only dream.
Is This for Real?
Advocates care about integrity, and they tend to bristle when people try to change them or talk them into something that they don’t believe. As a result, Advocate personalities gravitate toward partners who appreciate them as they are. And there’s a great deal to appreciate about Advocates: they’re warm, caring, honest, and insightful, with an ability to see the truth that lies beneath surface appearances.
When it comes to intimacy, Advocates can be incredibly passionate in ways that go beyond the physical. People with this personality type crave an emotional and even spiritual connection with their partner. They cherish not just the act of being in a relationship but also what it means to become one with another person in mind, body, and soul.
Friendships
Advocates (INFJs) have a deep desire for authenticity and sincerity in everything they do – from their daily activities to their relationships. As a result, people with this personality type rarely settle for friendships of convenience. Rather than rely on superficial interactions with the people they see every day at work or school, they generally prefer to have a close circle of confidants.
Advocates tend to light up around friends who share their passions,
interests, and beliefs. Few things give these personalities more pleasure than
connecting with others over discussions about meaningful ideas and
philosophies. Once Advocates know they can trust someone completely, they find
it incredibly fulfilling to share their innermost thoughts, ideas, and feelings
with them.
Searching for a Heart of Gold
Just as Advocates have high standards for themselves, they also have high standards for their friendships. They want to feel compatible with their friends on a deep level. In addition, Advocate personalities generally want to surround themselves with people who will inspire them to grow and improve. Most Advocates don’t just want to have fun with their friends – they also want to learn new things, make new discoveries, and deepen their bonds.
This is a tall order, and Advocates may feel that it’s difficult to meet
the sort of friends they’re searching for. Because Advocates are a rare
personality type, they may meet relatively few people who really remind them of
themselves. As a result, they may feel as if they need to settle for
less-than-fulfilling friendships or else accept being alone.
Fortunately, Advocates are more than capable of finding the types of
friends they long to meet – they might just have to use their intuition to do
so. In their quiet, understated way, Advocate personality types have a knack
for seeing beyond appearances and understanding people’s deeper natures. They
can use this ability to move past first impressions and figure out whether
someone’s interests, values, and attitudes might be compatible with their own.
By doing this, Advocates can befriend people who might seem totally different
from them but who are compatible on a deeper level.
In friendship, it’s as though Advocates are searching for a soul mate, someone who shares every facet of their passions and imagination.
Loyalty and Authenticity
Advocates have a quiet determination that can be quite charismatic, and their ability to express themselves clearly and passionately can make them truly shine. At times, these traits may lead to unwanted attention and popularity for Advocates, who tend to be private.
Advocates may sometimes find themselves surrounded by people who want to impress them. Paradoxically, this can make it more difficult for people with this personality type to find friends with whom they feel a connection. After all, the only way to be counted among Advocates’ true friends is to be authentic, honest, and real.
Once they do find genuine friends, people with the Advocate personality type make loyal and caring companions. With their trademark warmth and enthusiasm, they support their friends’ efforts to grow and expand their lives. In general, Advocate personalities don’t require a great deal of day-to-day attention from their friends. For them, quality trumps quantity – and that includes the time they spend with their nearest and dearest.
As trust grows, Advocates tend to share more of their inner lives with
their friends. If these revelations are met with acceptance and support, this
can herald the sort of friendship that transcends time and distance, lasting a
lifetime.
Over the years, Advocates may end up with just a few true friendships rather
than a wide circle of casual acquaintances. But as long as those friendships
are built on a richness of mutual understanding, Advocates wouldn’t have it any
other way.
Parenthood
“My instinct is to protect my children from pain. But adversity is often the thing that gives us character and backbone.” --NICOLE KIDMAN
As parents, Advocates (INFJs) tend to look at their relationships with their children as opportunities to learn and grow with someone they care about. These personality types also work to achieve another important goal: raising their children to be independent and all-around good people.
Advocate parents generally strive to be devoted and loving toward their children at all times. As they imagine their children’s futures, what Advocates really look forward to is being able to interact and connect as equals with the people they helped raise.
Advocate (INFJ) parents: Be Unique, Just Like Me
At the same time, Advocate personalities may also push their children to
think independently, make their own choices, and develop their own beliefs.
Depending on the child’s developmental stage and temperament, they might find
these expectations confusing or stressful – even though their Advocate parents
have the best of intentions.
If all this independence is taken to heart, it can cause some trouble for Advocate parents as their children move into the more rebellious phase of adolescence. This is especially true if their children choose beliefs that go against their values as Advocate parents. In this situation, Advocates may feel as if their children are criticizing or rejecting them – a hurtful thing to such a sensitive personality type.
A Job Well Done
Ultimately, Advocate parents tend to realize that it isn’t a sign of failure if their children turn out differently than they’d expected. Instead, they come to see this as a sign that they’ve successfully helped raise someone who has the ability to form their own ideals. Advocates’ children often come to appreciate the combination of independence and integrity with which they were raised – especially as they get older.
Advocates strive to make sure that their children grow up with a firm
understanding of the difference between right and wrong. Parents with this
personality type encourage their children to fight for a cause they believe in
and to be the best they can be. Whatever age their children might be, Advocates
can find a great deal of fulfillment and meaning simply in helping their
children learn to be true to themselves.
Career Paths
“It’s better to fail while striving for something wonderful, challenging, adventurous, and uncertain, than to say, ’I don’t want to try because I may not succeed completely.’” --JIMMY CARTER
In fact, many Advocates have trouble deciding which job is best for them
because they’re able to imagine so many possibilities. These personalities may
see 10 wildly different paths forward, each with its own set of rewards. This
can be exciting but also stress-inducing, because picking just one means
letting go of so many others.
Truth, Beauty, Purpose
Advocates want to find meaning in their work and to know that they are helping and connecting with people. This desire to help and connect can make roles as counselors, psychologists, teachers, social workers, yoga instructors, and spiritual leaders very rewarding for Advocates. Careers in health care – especially the more holistic varieties – can also be attractive options for this personality type.
Many Advocates are also strong communicators. This explains why they are often drawn to careers in writing, authoring many popular books, blogs, stories, and screenplays. Music, photography, design, and art can all be viable options as well, allowing Advocates to focus on deeper themes of personal growth and purpose.
That said, Advocates can excel in a range of fields. Wherever they work,
people with this personality type can find ways to help others. They can also
find ways to use their creativity in nearly any position. No matter what it
says on their business cards, Advocates’ insight can enable them to spot
unusual patterns and come up with out-of-the-box solutions, creating real
change in others’ lives.
For Advocates, money and Employee of the Month simply won’t cut it. These personalities want a career that fits their values and principles.
Two Roads Diverged in a Yellow Wood
Advocates’ needs may be hard to meet in some work environments, especially those that offer little independence and agency. Advocate personalities are sometimes drawn to behind-the-scenes and noncompetitive roles, but these jobs can lead to frustration if they don’t allow Advocates to act as they see fit, grow as individuals, and make a difference.
For this reason, people with the Advocate personality type may feel
fulfilled by seeking out leadership positions or by starting their own
business. By finding jobs that offer more autonomy, Advocates can focus on
applying their creativity and integrity to everything they do. Advocates may
also find it gratifying to create bridges between seemingly disparate
professional fields – for example, by writing about psychology or by being an
environmental lawyer. These hybrid careers can offer plenty of opportunities
for Advocates to exercise their creativity and their love of learning.
Where Advocates struggle is in work that doesn’t take personal needs into consideration, is overly repetitious, or promotes conflict. Jobs with these characteristics can leave Advocates frustrated and unfulfilled. People with this personality type may also chafe at the criticism and pressure that come with cutthroat, competitive work environments.
A Sense of Mission
In truth, Advocate personalities can do well in any field. To be truly
happy, however, they need to find work that aligns with their values and allows
them some independence. Advocates crave opportunities to learn and grow alongside
the people they are helping. When this happens, Advocates may finally feel as
if they are fulfilling their life’s mission, contributing to the well-being of
humanity on a personal level.
Workplace Habits
Advocates (INFJs) have some specific needs when it comes to a satisfying work environment. People with this personality type want to know that their work helps people and promotes their own personal growth. This means that their work must be in line with their values, principles, and beliefs.
In the workplace, Advocates tend to thrive when they have opportunities to express their creativity and insight, and they’re especially motivated when they know that what they’re doing has meaning. They also tend to do best when they can ignore workplace politics and hierarchies and simply do what matters to them. Most people with this personality type prefer not to think of themselves as above or below anyone else – no matter where they are on the job ladder.
Fortunately, Advocates are resourceful and creative, and they can find ways to make nearly any position work for them.
Advocate Subordinates
Advocates value cooperation, sensitivity, and independence. As employees, they tend to gravitate toward managers who are open-minded and willing to consider their input. Advocate personalities may become frustrated when they feel unheard, so having a manager who listens to them can make all the difference.
Ideally, Advocates will also find a manager whose values align with their own and who offers them encouragement and praise. Because Advocates tend to act on their convictions and aim to do their best, their morale can be vulnerable to criticism, particularly if it’s unwarranted. Other morale killers for these personalities may include strict rules, formal structures, and routine tasks.
Of course, a perfect work environment isn’t always possible. Advocate
employees with less-than-ideal managers may need to draw on their inner
resilience and seek out other mentors. The good news is that people with this
personality type are more than capable of handling workplace challenges,
including the challenge of having a difficult manager.
Advocate Colleagues
As colleagues, Advocates can be quite popular and well-respected. People with this personality type are likely to be seen as positive, eloquent, and capable coworkers. Among their greatest strengths is their ability to identify others’ motives and defuse conflicts and tension before anyone else even senses a disturbance.
At times, efficiency may be less of a priority for Advocates than collaborating with and helping colleagues who need a boost. While this is usually a strength, there is a risk that others will take advantage of their desire to help. Advocates may find themselves picking up the slack for their less dedicated coworkers at the expense of their own energy and well-being.
Although they tend to be warm and approachable colleagues, Advocates are
still Introverts. From time to time, they may need to step back and work alone,
pursuing their own goals in their own ways.
Advocate Managers
As managers, Advocates may dislike wielding their power. These personalities prefer to see those who work under them as equals. Rather than micromanage their subordinates, Advocates often prefer to empower them to think and act independently. They work hard to encourage others, not to crack the whip.
That’s not to say that Advocates have low standards – far from it. Their
sense of equality means that they expect their subordinates to live up to the
standards that they set for themselves. Advocate personalities want their
employees to be rigorous, motivated, reliable, and unfailingly honest, and they
will notice if their employees miss the mark.
Compassionate and fair, Advocate managers often take pride in identifying their subordinates’ unique strengths. They make an effort to understand their employees’ motivations – an effort that is helped by Advocates’ Intuitive insights.
That said, people with this personality type can be quite stern if they catch someone behaving in a way that they consider unethical. Advocates have little tolerance for lapses in reliability or morality. When their employees’ good intentions match their own, however, Advocates will work tirelessly to ensure that their entire team feels valued and fulfilled.
Conclusion
“In the end, it’s your actions, how you respond to circumstance, that reveals your character.” --CATE BLANCHETT
Yet Advocates face challenges too. Even the most idealistic and dedicated of personality types can become frustrated when it comes to navigating interpersonal conflicts, confronting unpleasant facts, pursuing self-realization, or finding a fulfilling career path. As a result, you may sometimes find yourself questioning who you really are – and who you’re really meant to be.
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